Thursday, March 25, 2010

A Life Once Lived

Today I write about something important, and I hope you all read it.

This morning I received a phone call - one that I knew would be coming soon. It was from my dad's wife, and she was calling to tell me that he has passed away. It was only almost two weeks ago that I found out he was terminally ill with cancer, a cancer of the blood - similar to leukemia. He had tried chemotherapy and radiation treatments, but his body was not strong enough to take those harsh treatments. There was nothing that any doctors could do.

When I had received the news, I had mixed emotions. My dad and I have not been close for a very long time. But he is my dad - was my dad, will always be my dad. No matter what our relationship, I know that he always loved me. Even when I was mean (and I could be really mean) to him, even when I was angry, even when I gave him the silent treatment...Through it all, I know he loved me, and I know he cared. I know he was proud of me. And I know he wished that we were closer.

So as I sit here and contemplate how I could have been a better daughter, I want to ask all of you to do this: Tell your loved ones that you love them every day. Tell them that they are important to you. Do it for me. Do it for those you love. Do it for yourself.

I was fortunate enough to be able to tell him a last goodbye, and I was able to tell him that I loved him no matter what we've been through all these years. There are so many people out there who have loved ones that are taken abruptly, without notice or warning...It's because life can be so short that we really do have to tell our loved ones that we love them as much as we can. If your loved ones do not live nearby, write them letters, send them those emails, and make those phone calls...Just keep in touch. I should have kept in touch more than I did, and I realize that now. While it's too late for me now, it's not too late to keep in touch with others, and it's not too late for all of you to do the same.

A life once lived now is gone, but will always be remembered.

Thank you for reading this.
P.S. My next listings will be in the "just B 4 a cause" section, and 100% of the proceeds will be going to Cancer research.

8 comments :

The Lavender Daisy said...

I'm so sorry for your loss! Thank you for posting an inspirational message. I hope that you and your family find strength during this time.

Confections In Glass said...

I am very sorry for your loss and you and your family are very much in my prayers as you go through this difficult time. Your message is absolutely beautiful and so true. It is so important that we tell our loved ones how much we love them and often. None of us know how much time we have on this earth. You are an inspiration to all of us. Love and hugs to you!

mygetfitjourney said...

I am very sorry to hear about your dad. I couldn't agree more with your message and I find your post truly inspirational.

Hugs to you and your family!

Ritzee Rebel said...

I'm so sorry to hear this, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

artofamy said...

This is very moving and i hope everyone listens to your message, im sorry for your loss ♥

Pennie said...

Ohh Kim, I am so sorry to hear about your dad passing away. Thank you for your beautiful words here on your blog. It moved me & i am sending you warm hugs through this.
Pennie

Dreamy Vintage said...

I am so sorry to hear about your loss Kim. I am thinking of you and your family.

Warm Hugs Design said...

Your post is so true. Thanks for the inspirational words. Sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and your family.

Warm hugs,
Pam